I have 9 nieces and nephews ranging in age from 1 to 17 and i have never bought them gifts for Christmas or any other holiday.
I don’t have kids, so it never seemed fair that i buy 9 extra gifts, and get nothing in return (since i have no kids).
I plan to buy them nice graduation gifts when they graduate from High School, but that’s it.
Does this mean i am a selfish worthless cheapskate, or is this rational and logical of me? And does my family hate me?